Saturday 25 February 2017

Magic Box

Sitting alone on a Friday evening with nothing much to do, opened up a drawer filled with old books. Sitting between the ever present insurance books on one side and the medical journals on the other was an old dirty looking plastic medicine box. I pulled it out and dusted it. I knew what lay inside…my collection of stamps from my school days.


My affair with postage stamps began in early 1970s when we were all asked to make an album during summer vacation. With none of my relatives living abroad and those within the country being more habituated to sending the 15 paise post cards, the collection did seem very difficult. So, out I went from friend to friend and the best I could muster were stamps of the Father of the Nation with his toothless smile….was he smiling at my misery? Finally one day my father took me to Connaught Circus where you could find many vendors selling stamps. I forced him to buy me two packets of about 25 stamps each. Without wasting much time, I got some glue and stuck them on a ruled notebook, covered the same with brown paper and wrote boldly, My Stamp Album. It was much later  that I realized the folly of sticking permanently and it took me a lot of pains to remove the stamps from there and put them in the box. Slowly over the time, I kept an eye for stamps and my collection grew. All I did was to put every stamp into the little box which seem to have unlimited capacity.


As I opened the box today, there was a sense of pride and fulfilment. No sooner had the lid come off, than the stamps came alive…stamps of all colours, so many countries some which do not exist any more…Jugoslavia…Burma…East Pakistan. With tender hands I started taking the stamps out, glancing at them…President Kennedy…Mount Rushmore…here’s one which shows the marriage of Princess Anne  issued by Hong Kong. And you thought only Diana and Kate Middleton's marriages mattered?


How did Qatar get to host 2022 FIFA World Cup…whatever be the means that got them the position to be the host nation, their interest in the game goes a long way to 1972 Munich Games….half a century ago to be precise.


While the US and Russia (CCCP then) were fighting hard the race for space, surprisingly there were small insignificant countries which issued many a stamp like Oman, Mongolia, Czech Republic and Yemen of all nations…must have found it quite inspirational.


In the early 70s, Indian Cricket team won some famous victories in the Caribbean and England and a commemorative stamp was also issued. Three of the famous four I could guess..Sunil Gavaskar the batsman, Bishen Singh Bedi the left arm bowler with a patka and Farokh Engineer the dashing wicketkeeper…the right arm spinner next to Gavaskar is possibly Venkataraghavan for he seems too thin to be Erapalli Prasanna and doesn’t seem to be the Leggie Chandra.


Once all the stamps poured out and said hello to me, I found some scraps of paper, five in all. On opening each one of them with care for fear of tearing them, the folds unfolded another part of self…these were cricket scorecards we used to have when playing in the Triangular Park of Sector 8 R.K.Puram. The scorecards were where I scored plentiful runs and one of them even totalled a hundred…a Century!! I am sure the scoring would have made even the great Sir Viv proud…almost a four and a six a ball and one after another. This was possibly the only century I have ever scored in my life. I could vividly see Sir Shibu with a bat which inevitable had a sticker to say it was made from Kashmir Willow, no gloves, no pads forget the inner protective gears and helmets which even kindergarten kids wear to play with the tennis ball today. We used to play with cork balls and in winters getting hit on your fingers and legs with those fast moving deliveries hurt a lot. We surely would have won the match that day against the fiercely competitive neighbourhood team.  Wonder whether the Batting Great raised his bat to the thunderous applause of the hundred thousand in the stands….how I wish it were true.


“Hello…there is more in me!” cried a child's voice from within the Magic Box. What I saw was another part of me…there were eleven picture cards of Pakistani cricketers, some famous, some forgotten but surely a squad to beat. Why did i preserve the pictures of these players and not the Indian Eleven....maybe these guys were the victors that day. Take a look at the mighty all-conquering Pak XI …names have been put in order of their position in the picture. 


Row 1: Asif Iqbal, Sikandar Bakht, Wasim Raja, Muddasar Nazar
Row 2: Taslim Arif, Imran Khan, Jawed Miandad, Abdul Raqib
Row 3: Iqbal qasim, Sadiq Mohhmd (that’s the way it is spelt!), Talat Mirza
This one is meant to be for Wisden’s Almanac.

Finally what lay at the bottom was a picture of a Peacock. Why would I have this picture with me? With utmost curiosity I took out the picture and turned it around to see the name of Ashoka Hotel written. And when I opened the flap, it contained match sticks for the Richie-Rich of those times who would go to the grandest hotel of all in the country and flaunt their wealth. With a 555 between their lips they would light the cigarette and blow circles in the air. With one stick less, it was obvious someone had thrown the pack after using just one, to be picked by a collector on the road. Wonder if the restaurants like The Rotisserie serving Superb Continental Cusine or Samovar, the 24 Hour Coffee Shop still serve their generous customers as they did five decades ago?


It is now in the last few years that I have got back into the habit of visiting the Main Post Office on the Parliament Street at Delhi with a separate Philatelic Section and I have bought myself a proper stamp album where the latest stamps issued by Indian Posts are keep in proper condition. For the other less privileged but treasured postage stamps of old, they seem to have lived almost four and a half decades in the Yellow Magic Box and still seemed happy and lively there. So I put them back and closed my Magic Box of Memories but the stamps, pictures and stories kept haunting me at night.

Looking back I feel it was fun collecting stamps, picking up match boxes and empty cigarette packs just like rag pickers of today, running with a small branch to catch the colourful butterflies and walking barefoot in the dirty drains to catch the frogs, picking up pictures of cricketers but of course the best of those times was playing in the open fields…nothing made you happier. Got an apt forward from a friend today:

"Almari se miley huye bachpan ke khilone, meri aankhon ki udaasi dekhkar bole, “tumhe hi bahut shauk tha bada hone ka?”(Toys from childhood days tumbling out of the safe, seeing the sadness in my eyes asked, “Wasn’t it you who was dying to grow up quickly?” 

SS

Saturday 4 February 2017

Romantically & Truly Yours

After fifteen years and four months, I took a bow from Tata AIG to pad up again to begin a new innings. This long tenure saw me take on multiple roles and so it was difficult to write a farewell note to all the people who had given me so much joy. Sharing with you, the last mail set in four parts for each of my four major stints in Marine Insurance, Business Head for Mumbai Zone, Agency Head and finally setting up the Tata AIG Academy & CSR functions.

Romantically & Truly Yours

A decade and half ago
I was young and she was younger
And we fell in love
Madly, head over heels.
But I was just a sailor then
And she was one with a great parentage
But love’s blind and so were we
Every day I would rush early morn
To meet her, to be with her as long as I could
Every night, I would dream of her.
Slowly the lowly sailor rose up the ranks
The small flotilla became big
Reaching out from brown waters into the blue ocean
And I became the Admiral of her formidable armada
Always on Her Majesty’s Service.
In my diary wrote, Happiness is on the move.















They grounded the admiral to command the sea fortress
Bom’ hai, safe harbor it was to Portuguese
T’was a beautiful place
With even more beautiful people
Every day my love grew stronger
As I did my Experiments with Truth
That Happy People Work Harder for Better Results
Started writing Postes to her
Sending them through Pigeons
Giants in America collapsed
The Taj was put on fire
But we stood firm
Went from strength to strength
Our romance peaked
We celebrated Jalsa, Town Halls and more
Wrote down in my diary, Life’s Truly Beautiful.















War was in the air
And I got to lead the famous 300 Spartans
Braver than the bravest
Fighting day and night
On coldest climes of north
To the wettest parts of west and east
To the southernmost parts of the country
We fought battles every day and every hour
Won some, lost some
But came back again to win back lost grounds
Found many a Hum Mein Hai Hero
Took many a Giant Step
She watched me fight, battered and scarred
The spirit still remained high
She too stood by me in lows and highs.
Wrote a war cry in my diary, Hulla Bol.














A new chapter began in our lives
She wanted me to don a new robe
She wanted me to reach out to people who needed help
She also wanted me to be a Sensei
And so I walked into a new life
Brick by brick, program by program
We built the school at home
Soon became the best in land
And we built toilets, hospitals and schools for others
A model village to show, volunteering in numbers
We did it all
But happiest was I sending her posts
Every Budhwaar she would hear from me
Became a Giani to my loving Peeku
And in my diary I wrote, Knowledge Always.















Finally get reminded of a Beatles song…
Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away
Now it looks as though they’re here to stay
Suddenly I’m not half the man I used to be…
Now I need a place to hide away
Oh I believe in yesterday….

But I must say it has been a loving experience made better by all the loving people here. All I can say is thank you, thank you and thank you all. Thankful of the love I got, grateful for the support you gave me, value your company and friendship and appreciate all those acts of kindness and forgiveness you showered on me. Couldn’t have come so far, done so much without you. Indebted to you for life. You are the source of what I am today be it knowledge, character or spirit.

Today the saddest of all is me as I walk out of this gate of my love of long one last time.

Accha Chalta Hoon, Duaaon Mein Yaad Rakhna.
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While a lot of employees wrote back, there were two management trainees whose lines are also given below. Hope you enjoy their touching responses.
Pooja & Devki with Giani
Bon Voyage..
A simple man who walks with smile & a cause,
He met young souls one day to greet & talk.
Instant respect earned it was,
Dedication, Passion & Discipline he spoke with a pause.
A man of words he is,
Weaves stories & tales fascinating every heartbeat..
His affair with history is very well known,
His captivating stories are always reread & retold..
Be it the world of Zulfi & Rabya’s  Bamiyan Valley,
or Amina’s romance near the ‘Same Old Tree’..
His writings help you discover Life & human emotions,
‘Ziddi’ or Gum Bahadur’s ‘Rang de Basanti’,
He tells you, “Life is not at all being senti!!”
A robe of humor he wears,
For every soul, he cares.
A master story-teller was a master sailor too,
As captain of many ships, he brilliantly sailed through.
Smile he brings to every soul he interacts,
Humility is a facet of his persona that attracts.
Positivity one finds when he walks around,
In Uncle Giani, a cool dad this Peeku found!
Calmness comes, talking to you when mind & heart aren’t sound,
Chalte, Chalte mera ye geet yaad rakhna.. we’ll meet again because ‘ The World is Round…’

Miss You Sir!
As you set the sails and get hauled away,
These are the few words I would love to say,
“A great teacher, a friend and a guide,
This journey with you was like a wonder ride.
Thank you for your kindness, love and care,
You are a gem ‘so precious and rare’.
Though it’s hard to bid adieu,
Still I wish good luck to you.
May your  journey be filled with more adventure,
As you enjoy your new venture.
Stay blessed Always,
All the best in the coming days!”.

WE WILL MISS YOU SIR!!!!
You will always be remembered in our prayers.

LAST WORD: What is common to Rajni Sir and me? We both have fan clubs….A group of colleagues created a SFC or Sibesh Fan Club and they wrote a beautiful letter to Debi & Mrittika. The letter is very personal and so will not inflict pain upon you to read it, just sharing a small paragraph which makes  me feel blessed.

Envelope with thumb impressions of Club Members & the Cover
The Letter
“I think it would be nigh impossible to find a person in Tata AIG whose life has not been touched by Sibesh in some way. There are good leaders and then there are great leaders. Sibesh belongs to the latter tribe and it has been a pleasure to see him lead the teams he was responsible for ……his teams know that he is right there with them, giving them space to grow unhindered …..that is why teams under him are happy teams and come to work with a smile. Today when he steps out of Tata AIG, he leaves behind a legacy of goodness and positivity…”


SS